Wednesday, April 27, 2022

Praying For Loved Ones





"What can I do, Lord. My heart is heavy this morning for those I love that do not know you. I fear for the time when they meet you and have not accepted you. What can I do?"

If you have been saved, you probably have loved ones that you have this burden for. To spend eternity without them someday just sees unfathomable. And painful.

I ran across a devotion this morning that explains it better then I probably can and want to share it with you. Please read on:


Who would you most like to see come to know Christ as their Savior? Your spouse? One of your children? A dear friend? A grandchild? 

If you’re like me, every time you think of this person, your heart aches, because you know if they don’t accept Christ, they will die one day and spend eternity in hell. This frightens me—that someone I love could spend eternity separated from God (and from me). May it never be.

But the reality is that one day we will all stand before the judgment seat of Christ and give an account. The entrance exam to heaven has one question: 


The entrance exam to heaven has one question: 

Who are you trusting in?


There’s only one right answer: “I’m trusting in Jesus Christ as my Savior.”

For years I couldn’t give that answer. The best I could do was hope my good works outweighed my bad works on judgment day. Some of my acquaintances, friends, and loved ones can’t give this answer because they haven’t yet come to faith in Jesus Christ. They’re still trusting in their works to get them into heaven. They don’t understand the truth of Ephesians 2:8-9:

“For by grace you have been saved, through faith, and that not of yourselves, it is a gift of God, not of works, lest any man shall boast.”

Because I love them, I witness to them, serve them, and do my best to demonstrate God’s love to them. But the most important thing I can do is to pray for them.

I ask God to open hearts to believe. Scripture tells us that no one comes to God unless the Father draws him (John 6:65), so it makes sense to ask God to draw our loved ones to himself and open their hearts to believe.

 I ask God to open their hearts to believe. Scripture tells us that no one comes to God unless the Father draws him (John 6:65), so it makes sense to ask God to draw our loved ones to himself and open their hearts to believe.

The book of Acts tells of a woman named Lydia. She was a religious woman who was trying to worship God as best she knew how. But she hadn’t trusted Jesus as her Savior. Paul shared the Gospel with her, like we should with our unbelieving loved ones. And then something miraculous happened. Acts 16:14 describes it this way:

“The Lord opened her heart to respond to Paul’s message.” 

Apart from God opening a person’s heart to believe, the message of the Gospel falls on deaf ears. The spiritually dead cannot receive the life-giving truths of Scripture unless God opens their hearts. This is what we should pray for.

The take away from Acts 16 is simple: Pray for the people you love who don’t know Christ as their Savior. And when you pray, ask God to open their hearts. Pray and don’t stop.

“For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved” (Rom. 10:10).

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Prayer for them. It's the best possible thing to do for those that have not come to Jesus.  And let me say also that, it is best to not try to hit them over the head with the gospel. I know people that have done that. Been so over zealous about what they believe, that they are actually not doing any good for the Kingdom. And I have seen people actually turn away from those that are doing the hitting.

What? Overzealous?

I believe that it is better to let others see God living in us then by shoving him down the throats of people that have no desire for him, all the time.

It can be so bad as that they hate to see someone like that coming. Always preaching at them, always telling them they are going to hell...always....always....always.

Jesus didn't force himself on anyone. The Holy Spirt doesn't force himself on anyone. God does not force himself on anyone.

As the author of this devotion said, it is only God that draws their hearts to believe. It is our job to pray for them. To be a light to them by letting them see God in our lives. And when God speaks to us about talking about him to them, to do it as he opens their hearts.

Praying for them is the very best thing we can do for those that we love that have not given their lives to Jesus.

Thanks for coming by, Friends. God go with you today.











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